Anonymous wrote: I recommend trying different Al-Anon meetings to find a better fit. Have you talked to DH about creating the space for you to get your needs met? Anonymous wrote: I leave my name because if it’s something I feel strongly enough about to drop money on, I want people to know who donated it.

Understanding the Context

Plus, I know it also shames others into donating as well, and that works to help out the person receiving the donations. The people that aren’t donating aren’t looking at the go fund me.